I appreciate the thoughtful reminder to Some of us grew up listening to the Jon Bon Jovi the cool ones still do sunset retro shirt. But remember it is also a time to realize that others have suffered and been down this path before. Listen to them as well. Knowing someone else has lost a child is a deep connection. Grief groups can be very therapeutic. Thank you, my friend. You are very special. I can tell from your words and the way you live. Thank you for fostering those precious animals. Thank you for sharing important information, while others may grieve differently I think it is good, sound counsel to listen and ask. I know I have been guilty of trying to fill the silence with my own story and there may come a time for that but we need to be mindful and pay attention to those that are hurting.