I thought perhaps this young lady will be spared from knowing the pain and exhaustion that comes from hiding and judging and apologizing for the space she inhabits. Perhaps this was the moment she decides to live freely and fiercely, just as she is. You are responsible for your self-care so that you may continue to function in the situation you are in. I am often “unloaded on” and I have noticed it’s having an impact on my wellbeing. I am saving your comment to read and re-read. Let’s not hide anymore.